The Unrecognized Power of Touch

Aug. 14, 2005 - 3-dimensional Touch

Thanks to our greater touch system, aka our haptic system, we can tell the depth, direction, and duration of touch. Studies have shown that these 3-D's vary with our state of mind. When you feel angry, that is transferred in your touch. Have you ever been upset at your child and grabbed his wrist to take him to his room? No words are necessary as your touch transfers your feelings. Luckily our feelings of love are also felt.


Try this: Have a partner close her eyes and touch her back for 3 seconds while tensing your arms and then try while as relaxed as you can possibly imagine and touch again with a feeling of love. Can she tell the difference? Try several times to see if you can trick her. From my experience, most people can tell if they are being touched with tension or relaxation.


As an expert on touch I now am very particular about how I am massaged as I easily sense the givers tension and find myself getting tense in response. Let me know if you try this how it turns out.


In Touch,

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Aug. 15, 2005 - My touchy body

Posted by kittyc
Because I received so much inappropriate touch as a child ~ both violent and sexual ~ I guess my body developed its own defense mechanism: I bruise very easily. It's not uncommon for me to leave a delicious Swedish massage to find that my body is black and blue. And you are absolutely correct, touch that is delivered with uptight hands, no matter how softly they touch, feels very different than touch that's delivered tenderly.

Ah, what power we hold in our fingertips. Thanks for your wisdom!

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Aug. 16, 2005 - Scolding a child

Posted by Ritaw
What is your recommendation on how to use touch when scolding a child?

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I teach about how touch shapes lives. My blog offers information on the profound impact and the unrecognized power of our sense of touch. How we are touched as children affects our behaviors and relationships for life. Through the art of appropriate touch, I help build safer, saner, happier families. Specific touch-related knowledge and skills help families effectively deal with stress and ensure they are violence free families.

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